Grown Folks Business

Only grown pholks will understand this.... Just some things phloating around the old noggin phrom time to time.
In our quest phor happiness we must be sure that we don't settle phor a Playmate when the Universe has a Soulmate waiting phor us. Sometimes this is a hard distinction to make. Playmates are tricky. They are so much phun to be with that even the smartest of us will be phooled into thinking this has to be our Soulmate. Worse yet too many of us attempt to make a Soulmate out of a Playmate. The danger of this is that later, after years of playing, we will meet our Soulmate, but it may be too late. We may have already made a Lifemate of our Playmate and created life-long bonds (emotional, children, etc.).

Alternatively, we may have been hurt phrom playing so hard that we are in no shape ourselves to be anyone's anything. How can we distinguish between the One, and just another one? Phirst, we must be open with ourselves about who we really are and what our soul yearns phor. Only you and the Universe knows what is truly in your heart and mind. Only you know what will make you truly happy and whole. In order to phind your Soulmate you have to know you, phirst. You must be willing to listen to that inner voice. Moreover, is that voice telling you that the nerdy person you enjoy talking and sharing your thoughts with, could be him? What about that phriend who is always willing to go the extra mile phor you when no one else will. Oh no! He's too short or too tall, balding or too hairy, and on and on? Just too ordinary looking phor me.

Then there's that girl who makes you pheel so special when you're around her, but she doesn't match that ideal you have conjured in your head. She's too tall, not slender enough, not light or dark enough, not shapely enough, not attractive enough, and on and on. She just couldn't be phor me! Therefore, what if he or she doesn't look like Shemar Moore or Vivica Fox. Is he or she going to treat you like the jewel that you are?

Not only that, his or her soul and yours will commune in ways you never imagined possible! In order to heed that voice, we have to put on the back burner our own superficial thinking. Could it be that your inner desire is phor a truly genuine person with a good heart? If you enjoy playing, stay on the playground. There are plenty of Playmates out there to occupy your time. Nevertheless, don't spend too much time playing or you may play your life away. Eventually the playing loses it appeal and your soul begins to crave a deeper, more meaningful connection. Your soul begins to crave your Soul mate.

Never make someone a priority when all you are to him or her is an Option.

Have a great day the Starrphuk way;)!
La Reina

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