Stay together as much as you feel you need to, but do not hold onto one another like your life depended on it, or seem clingy, as this may make it more difficult for other couples to approach you.
As time goes on at the party there may be general disrobing. Only go as far as you want to and pheel comfortable with. You may be accepted if you chose to remain fully clothed, although it is recommended that you try to include yourself as much as possible, changing into something more revealing may help others include you and make you feel more involved.
Be honest with each other about your emotions. If you pheel jealous of your partner, or have any other uncomfortable pheelings; then tell your partner. If you do not, they may come out later and be much more awkward and damaging.
Do not worry about asking your hosts or other guests questions, swingers are generally interested in meeting new people, and may help explain the lifestyle as much as possible. Also tell your hosts if you and your partner have ANY limitations; i.e. The lady plays with women only, and her fella watches. Or, the lady plays with men only and does not play with women. Or even the Man plays with other women, but his lady doesn't play with other men; just women.
If there is a hot tub or spa for instance, try to use it, nude or in a bathing suit. It is close to other people and may help you make new phriends.
Try as hard as you can to leave your inhibitions at home, both sexual and social. These may interfere with your swinging pleasure, you can't expect to get much out of a swingers party if you're not prepared to put much in.
Do not pretend to be someone else, be phriendly and good natured. A warm smile has a positive effect on everybody!!
Have a great day the Starrphuk way;)!
Rinna La Reina